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Posted in Crazy Wisdom on Saturday, September 21, 2002 at 3:14 pm by flerly.

Well.. if anybody wants to know WHY he went green-haired, here‘s what I think …

or this

or this

or possibly this

…or just all of the above.

This is me venting… and oh yeah.. being girly and seeking sympathy.

Me wonders if this is some sort of midlife crisis type issue, sure he’s too young for that, but rationally wouldn’t a man feeling like he didn’t have to work to keep his woman because he’s found the one he wants to settle with sometimes feel the need to just see if he COULD work it? Heck, that’s probably how most affairs end up…

Who doesn’t flirt… I understand it, but clearly this hair color change was to “get the girl’s interest”… I love different colored hair, makes me all happy n stuff!

Then I saw this… and I am counting the days until he posts about how cool Atlanta is… it’ll meet all her needs, etc etc..


God I hate college girls.

All this seems to point to my extreme unhappiness… but it really doesn’t. Sure it doesn’t make me jump for joy, but I do understand it. It just makes it difficult to explain to someone why I love him and want to be with him…. when he’s such a guy.



  1. tiger66466 has made a Comment

    who the hell is this girl? how did you stumble upon these little posts?

    September 21, 2002 @ 11:20 am

  2. flerly has made a Comment

    I stumbled on them reading HIS friends page. I’ve been doing it for a while to read the motorcycle forum posts, cuz i felt silly joining it, but it was interesting. He says this is some random girl that added him to her list, he noticed, so he added her back so he could read some stuff. She’s not the only random person that’s done this, but some of her posts have been… let’s say.. interesting enough to catch my eye and apparently his.

    Oh.. and he is very aware I read his friends page. I told him ages about, because i was commenting on the motorcycle posts to him. I asked him about this particular line of posts with this chick and he says.. “well, it’s just harmless flirting, nothing else. And I did remember that you read my friends page, but usually I only remember after I’ve read something and posted my impulsive response.

    September 21, 2002 @ 1:58 pm

  3. schlemaggle has made a Comment

    he is such a *fucking* guy. not that he’s fucking anything/anyone, but we just need that for emphasis.

    secondly, well…you know my thoughts on the issue.
    harmless flirting = doing so when you know that a)no specific $igother is going to stumble across said flirtations and b)it’s not going to potentially hurt anyone, especially the specific $sigother (thus the whole “harmless” part). i dunno. i’d be pissed if csm was engaging in “harmless flirtation” like the above, especially when he knows i’ll stumble across it sooner or later without having to break into his computer like a psycho-stalker.

    maybe he just needs to get all of this *guy* stuff out of his system before the holidays?

    September 21, 2002 @ 5:03 pm

  4. aoide has made a Comment

    I don’t know. Maybe I am just jaded and an evil bitch, but I think it’s rude. Harmless or not, if something your $igother is doing hurts your feelings at all, it’s no longer harmless. It’s not like he doen’t know it stings. I’m not so nice as to call it guy behavior. I call it asshole behavior. If it hurt his felings when you did X, Y or Z would you do it again? No, because you love him and care about him and don’t want him to feel hur by you or your actions. But that’s me and my brutal honesty. I Don’t mean to piss anyone off. It’s just mho.

    September 22, 2002 @ 9:53 am

  5. schlemaggle has made a Comment


    is he a 17-year-old posing as 24-year-old? because that’s what it sounds like to me…

    not to fret, my dear one. stop being so nice/available/loving/caring, and soon, he’ll realize what an ass he’s being.

    September 23, 2002 @ 4:46 am

  6. flerly has made a Comment

    Umkay.. I deleted that post, but I guess you still got the email notice. Yeah.. that was bad. He apologized later. He said he just didn’t want to talk about those things over IM. He said he did remember saying it, but that it wasn’t exactly what i thought it meant… He was lamenting how much he hates deciding on holiday issues and brought it up because his mom had emailed him about Thanksgiving. He said he just threw out vegas cuz that’s just someplace we’d been talking about going, and he said he thought we’d decided on getting married in hawaii now anyway. He didn’t realize i would take it like i took it.

    So, it’s all a POV issue.

    September 23, 2002 @ 6:00 am

  7. schlemaggle has made a Comment

    still…telling you that you misunderstood him the way that he did…well, that’s just bad PR. why not just say, “hey, this isn’t something i really want to discuss over IM? let’s talk about it later”?

    pftt. boys are dumb. *all* of them.

    September 23, 2002 @ 6:09 am

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